Note that the theme of the ball may indicate a certain attire within the dress code. A masquerade ball might be black tie and request Venetian masks, for example.
Lighter colors are best suited to day events while deeper colors and black are generally more appropriate for an evening ball.
Unless the invitation states otherwise, it is best to assume all dresses for a ball should be floor length. An A-line gown in maroon or emerald green would be a refined way to wear color. Experiment with classic prints, such as florals, to provide some interest to your look. A good rule of thumb is to choose prints that are smaller than the size of your fist. Very large or ornate prints may call attention to you in a negative way.
Note that if you’re very petite, a ball gown may overwhelm your small frame. A column-style dress would be more flattering. Opt for ball gowns in solid colors; a printed ball gown may appear excessive given that it is a more voluminous garment.
If you’ll be dancing at the ball, a mermaid-style dress is a little more constricting than a ball gown or A-line dress, which allow more movement. Avoid cut-outs or plunging necklines with this style, as the silhouette is already sexy on its own. A mermaid-style dress in a black-and white print would be a fun, classic take on a more modern silhouette.
Avoid a column dress if you’re heavier on the bottom than the top, as the slim silhouette can make your body look imbalanced. Due to their simple silhouettes, column dresses are a great cut to show off intricate beading or lace detailing.
Pair more ornate statement jewelry featuring large stones or many strands of beads with a solid-color gown. This will make your eye-catching jewelry the center of attention. Try more understated jewelry, such as gold or pearl stud earrings, with patterned or beaded gowns, so the two parts of your look don’t compete.
For a sleeveless dress, opt for gloves that are longer than elbow length. “Opera gloves” are very long gloves that go far beyond the elbow, and are very dressy and make for a bold look. Generally one doesn’t wear evening gloves with a long-sleeved evening gown. Proper etiquette entails keeping your gloves on when dancing and greeting others but removing them to eat.
Metallic wedges are a supportive choice for dancing and go with most dresses. Embellishments, such as rhinestones, could dress up a pair of plain ballet flats.
If you don’t like to wear a lot of makeup, go for a polished natural look in pink and neutral shades. Many salons can do your hair and makeup for a formal event, if you don’t feel comfortable doing it yourself.
Pair your dark suit with a regular necktie or a bowtie. Bowties may come off as slightly more formal. Choose a tie in formal material, such as silk or satin. Avoid novelty prints and opt for classics, such hounds tooth.
Peaked lapels are considered the most formal and traditional lapel style. Tuxedos are typically worn with a black or dark-colored bowtie, a cummerbund, and pocket square. Opt for suiting accessories in dark colors or subtle prints in fine fabrics, such as silk. [16] X Research source
White tie usually calls for a white silk bowtie and suiting accessories. [18] X Research source If you’re looking for a theatrical flourish for a very formal event, consult a suiting boutique about a silk top hat or dress cane.
Note that watches are often seen as being in poor taste at very formal events. The implication being that you are bored and watching the clock tick down until you can leave.
Avoid fake flower boutonnieres, which may come across as comical or cheap.
