If the event is in the daytime, you should expect to dress slightly less formally and in lighter colors than for evening events. If you want to dress feminine, you can wear skirts and a dress shirt for day events while masculine people can wear a light suit jacket paired with suit pants, khakis, or cotton twill pants. If the event takes place in the evening, “semi-formal” generally means more formal. One helpful rule to stick by is “the later the event, the darker and dressier. ”[2] X Research source Therefore, masculine looks should incorporate darker colors, such as a dark suit and tie. Feminine looks could include a cocktail dress, slacks and a dressy blouse, or a little black dress. [3] X Research source If in doubt, ask the organizers of the event.
If you’ve been invited to a garden party in the middle of the afternoon, you don’t want to sweat through your clothes, so you can likely wear lighter fabrics and slightly more revealing clothing (such as knee high skirts or dresses for a feminine look). However, if you’ll be indoors for a more conservative event, such as a bar mitzvah in a synagogue, you’ll want to cover up more and also perhaps have a couple layers to adjust to the temperature as needed. Another possible consideration is where the event will be held in terms of region or even country. The concept of semi-formal is different not only for each event but also for different groups of people. For example, a semi-formal event at a beach in Southern California will likely include sundresses and flipflops while expectations may be different at an event on the East Coast. If you are going to an event in a different country or a foreign cultural event, be sure to ask ahead of time for more guidance on what to wear.
Semi-formal dress tends to be more comfortable and flexible than formal dress. However, many people think that means anything goes when there are some key rules. For example, for people planning to wear a dress, a golden rule of wearing a semi-formal dress is that it can go to the knee or lower but it should not touch the ground. A floor length dress would be considered formal and you would probably be considered overdressed for the occasion. Of course, you don’t want to wear simply any dress based on length so go for dresses that are made of fancier fabrics, such as silk, satin, or velvet. [4] X Research source For a masculine look the expectation of semi-formal dress is a bit more straightforward: wear clothes that are just slightly less formal than a tuxedo. Dress slacks, jackets, blazers, and suits are all good starting points. The colors, thickness of fabric, and level of accessorizing is up to individual taste as well as the event details (location, time, etc).
If you are planning a traditionally feminine outfit, the phrase “semi-formal” is more flexible so you can include nice button down shirts and skirts as possible options (particularly for a daytime event). For those dressing masculine, look for long sleeve button downs, nice pants, and suits.
For masculine looks, a potential danger in dressing semi-formal is going overboard and looking too formal for the occasion. [5] X Research source Avoid tuxedos and go for a matching suit instead.
For people wearing skirts or dresses, go for tasteful jewelry that isn’t too formal or expensive. Opt for small earrings or a simple chain necklace that complements rather than competes with your outfit. Remember that clothing doesn’t have a gender, and mixing traditionally feminine and traditionally masculine items can look great if done well.
Masculine shoes include a nice pair of loafers or boat shoes. [6] X Expert Source Hannah ParkProfessional Stylist Expert Interview. 21 February 2019. If you don’t have any dress shoes, you can compensate with a pair of nondescript dark canvas shoes. Feminine shoes might be kitten heels or ballet flats. High heels are not only bad for your body[7] X Research source but are often considered a bit too formal, especially for teens. Usually, red clothing, accessories, and shoes look good on everyone. [8] X Expert Source Hannah ParkProfessional Stylist Expert Interview. 21 February 2019.
Makeup is not a requirement, especially if you don’t already wear makeup. However, if you do choose to do your makeup, less is more in this situation. A little mascara and lip gloss can go a long way. Avoid copious amounts of eye makeup and bright lipsticks as these can be seen as a bit too formal. In terms of hairstyles for long hair, go for a simple but elegant look. Pinning back a few strands with some nice hair clips or sweeping your hair into a classic bun are both great options. You could also put it into a braid or slick it all back.
Some questions you could ask yourself are, “Would a parent approve?” and “Would you wear this to church?” If the answer is no, you may be wearing something too casual or revealing and may want to go back and try on another outfit.
If you dress mostly in suits, start looking into some clothing articles that you may not already have, such as ties, leather shoes, and nice belts. Ask an older masculine relative or friend for guidance. Your parents may also be willing to buy you some of these items. If you prefer wearing dresses, consider whether you have some of these basics: sensible, low heeled shoes, blazers, or cocktail dresses. A little black dress is also a great option that’s appropriate for many semi-formal events.
Knowing what you’re missing from your wardrobe ahead of time will help you while you’re shopping as you’ll have a specific goal instead of wandering around aimlessly. Always browse the sale section as you never know what you’ll find.
Just be sure to buy clothes that are still in good condition and aren’t worn out or misshapen.
